My Boyfriend Doesn't Want To Wait Till Marriage To Have Sex

You know that empty feeling you get after having sex?... it was great but SOMETHING doesn’t feel right.

You’ve been convicted about the double life that you’ve been living by not giving God every area of your life. Deep down you’re unhappy with yourself and you wish your mind and vagina will catch up with your heart. It doesn’t help that your boyfriend thinks that waiting till marriage to have sex is “childish” and stupid… SO, WHERE DO YOU GO FROM HERE?

Forget What You Know

In the movie Forbidden Kingdom, starring Jackie Chan and Jet Li, a young boy nags Chan about all the legendary Kung Fu moves that he wants to learn. Annoyed, Jackie Chan begins to fill the cup in the boy’s hands with hot water to the point of overflow. With burning hands from the spilling water, the boy urges Chan to stop, telling him that his cup is already full. To this, Jackie Chan responds, “exactly, how can your cup be filled if it is already full?”

How can your cup be filled if it is already full? It can’t. It must first be emptied. The young boy needed to forget about all those fancy moves he had heard about and seen and practiced in the mirror as a kid, and he had to be willing to learn from scratch. Then and only then, could the young boy move forward and learn the art of Kung Fu.