Uh oh, I Feel Like My Girlfriend is Already My Wife

After 4 whole years of being with Emmanuella, it’s hard not to feel entitled to sex. In these four years, I’ve been faithful, loyal, patient, I’ve shown her the utmost respect, generosity and much more (I have definitely been a pain in the butt as well but that’s not the point right now). After all the flowers, edible arrangements, dinners, hours on the phone, sweet words, and Instagram features, there are moments when I feel like I’m putting in more work than half my brothers, but ain’t getting’ half of what they gettin’.

IT'S NOT WHAT YOU THINK

How would you feel if someone who was HIV positive purposely lured you into having unprotected sex, just so that you could contract it? Or what if this someone did this to a loved one of yours? Chances are, you wouldn’t be too happy. In fact, you might very well be pissed off, and want this person to rot in jail for their whole life and then in hell for the rest of eternity. I would dare to say that you might very well be this pissed off about such a story, even if the person with HIV purposely gave it to your worst enemy. If you felt this way, I wouldn't be surprised. What's surprising though, is the fact that we all know someone who does this on a daily basis. This person works overtime to flatter you and lure you into a rendezvous that leaves you burnt, hurt, ashamed, and guilt-stricken. Yet, we keep going back to him.